I was at a wedding in Colorado. There were
professional photographers clicking non-stop from every angle, all the time. I
had my 1970s Nikkor 105mm lens on my camera and wanted to capture a different
story from that of the wedding itself.
So, I decided to focus on the left hand of the bride
at the moments leading to the groom sliding the ring on her finger. It should
be one of the more memorable yet tense moments. It is beyond the words
exchanged until that point. It is concrete. A precious metal ring will soon
circle that finger indicating that all is now real. That moment is a life
changer.
I have always been fascinated by body posture during
street photography. Small moves and bends express the feelings of the subject (https://liveingray.blogspot.com/2017/01/aesthetics-that-tell-story-fluidity-of.html
). One of my projects that has generated many comments was my attempt looking
at people from a dog’s perspective. Not surprisingly I captured a lot of legs
from that angle of view (https://liveingray.blogspot.com/2014/09/street-photography-from-dogs-perspective.html
).
Hands are even more special. In most parts of the
globe our first impression of the other person comes after a handshake. It
lasts a few seconds, but we can tell a lot about the person. The handshake can
be dominant, submissive, accepting, imposing, suggestive or indifferent. A wet
palm exposes the person immediately; a lingering handshake makes you wonder. If
there is a slight squeeze you may get uncomfortable. If there is a tremor you
may not know if to hold the hand or let it go..
So, I left the traditional pictures of the bride all
radiant in joy to the other photographers. All I wanted is a few shots within a
few seconds just before the groom slides the ring upon the finger of the bride.
I wanted to see if her hands show the feelings and an
emotion her face may not, as it is customary to remain all radiant during the
ceremony.
… At the moment leading to the best man producing
the rings, the bride was all smiles but her hands were very tightly together.
All anticipation for sure.
Then a slight comfort with the moment, although
still tense.
And suddenly, all came together. It was the moment
of truth as the groom held her ring between his index and thumb. At this
second, the bride’s left hand ascended with grace as if trout to the surface of
the stream.
And there is the hand that says “all is well”!
… Alea jecta est. Happy trails young couple.
February 27, 2017
© Vahé A. Kazandjian, 2017
PS/ Since I took these photos from 20 yards with a
fixed lens, I had to crop extensively. Of course that means sacrificing the
quality of the photos, but my goal was more about describing the psychology of
the moment and not the technical quality of the product.